Weekly Menu & Grocery Update

This is another strange week.  I’m going out twice and the older ones are going away next weekend so those of us left will be having some toddler fare.  There’s also this big storm.

I did a small grocery run last week.

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I’ll be doing that again this week.  They have a few (4-5) coupons that are very good every week, but require you to purchase at least $25 after coupons.   That’s why you see a tiny container of peanut butter in the picture above.  This week I’ll be using 3 of said coupons – 1 lb of baby carrots, paper towels, and Oreos (which I only buy on this level of sale).  I may even go around twice since I have some other sale items to get and paper towels bring me closer to $25 than the usual coupon items.

Here’s the meal plan for this week.

Saturday:
Kids: poached eggs
Adults: homemade pizza

Sunday:
Butter poached chicken (in oven)
Carrots
Homemade bread

Monday:
Fajitas

Tuesday:
Leftover pulled pork sandwiches

Wednesday:
Chicken & artichokes
Mashed potatoes

Thursday:
Macaroni & cheese

Friday:
Grilled cheese sandwiches

The Blizzard

They’re saying we’re getting north of 2 feet.  Yes, that is a lot for around here.  Maybe a top 5 storm; likely top 10.

What I’ve realized, though, is that my storm preparation is different from others.  A few years back we were under a boil order.  This did not bother me deeply as we still had running water for toilets and we had some bottled water at home.  And, it was not a natural disaster, but a malfunction in the system so a few days seemed like a reasonable time for it to be repaired.  The one thing I didn’t have that I wanted was paper bowls so I didn’t need to do dishes (we usually have some paper plates and cutlery available for parties).  So, I went to Walgreen’s to discover that the water and hand sanitizer were entirely sold out but paper products were, thankfully, untouched.  I’m not sure how I’m the only one who preferred to use paper vs boil water that I then was going to use to do dishes.  I am sure that a power outage is worse than useable but non-potable water.  A lack of indoor plumbing would be entirely different.

Fast forward to now.  It’s often said that folks buy milk, bread, and eggs when a big storm is coming.  This week I heard a new take – bread, batteries, and beer.  Either way, I went to Target yesterday and two grocery stores today and bought none of those things.

Here’s what I got at Stop & Shop.  It had nothing to do with the storm other than schedule.  We’re told not to be sure we’re getting out on Wednesday and have no scheduled reason to leave the house on Thursdays (in general) so Monday is the last day these sales will be available.

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I also went to Wegmans.  I could have waited until Friday (as I better be out by then), but the pork butt is storm related as we intend to smoke it if the power goes out.

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My primary preparations consisted of getting as much laundry and dishes done as possible so as not to run out.  I also put the heat a little higher at night so we have farther to go before freezing should the power go out.  I unplugged the house phone so we’re not awakened by the 5 am “no school” call; the cells will be in night mode but get through in an emergency.  Finally, among my errands I took my bucket to the DPW to fill it with their salt/sand mixture.

Best of luck for anyone who needs to shovel.  We’ll see what this actually brings us.

The Prudent Homemaker

Yes, two blog reviews in a row.  This one doesn’t cover nearly as many topics, but goes in great detail into a few.  What I find most interesting (being a numbers person) is the detail and planning around eating.  One of the old posts – still linked to the homepage – refers to her ability to feed her family for 40¢/person/day.  It’s gone up a bit since then, but you get the idea.

She achieves this by shopping wisely as well as growing/making much of her own food.  You can read in great detail on the blog.

As a numbers person I find the planning fascinating – to paraphrase “Potatoes will be $x/lb this month so I’ll buy 300 pounds which is enough to last a full year.”  To be able to do this one needs to know ones prices (ideally this would be a price book), know how much of everything your family consumes in a given amount of time, and have enough space to put a year’s supply of food.  I don’t have enough space for a year’s supply of food, but I do know my prices (maybe not quite as well as her) and I know how much we eat (roughly).

The blog is excellent at reminding me to be mindful.  I’m not going to buy all my year’s green beans at their lowest ever price and can them.  But, I do realize when green beans are 3x their lowest price and buy something else.

Second, she phrases it just right when she recommends to plan meals around what’s in your pantry, not what’s on sale.  That’s not to say that I don’t pay attention to what’s on sale.  But, any given week a big chunk of my grocery shopping goes towards items that are on sale that I won’t necessarily use that week.  If I can use them immediately, great – less to store.  But, if its something I will use and it’s a great sale (or good enough on things I use regularly) I will stock up.  For me stocking up is 6-8 weeks worth since most sales cycle in that time.  For a few items, like pantry staples, that go on sale at specific times of the year I will buy more.

The downside I find to her numbers, though, is the money she spends on things most of us who shop regularly don’t have/need.  She has many kitchen gadgets – food dehydrator, canning supplies for a years’ storage of many different things, deli slicer, grain mill, food grade storage buckets – that cost money.  She has a tricked out garage/pantry.  She spends a lot of time/money gardening.  I completely agree that once one has these things grocery shopping is cheaper, but there’s an upfront cost and a lot of ongoing work that I think we need to keep in mind.  All that being said, I like reading about it with my own life lens.

So, since I’ve taken to posting our grocery spending here, I did a quick calculation to determine what we spend per person per day on meals.  Realizing that we do eat out from time to time, I estimate that we typically make 555 meals/month.  I aim for $900/month, but for this exercise we’ll use $1000/month in groceries.  That gives me $1.80/meal or $5.40/person/day if we ate every meal at home (spending more on groceries, but less total since we wouldn’t be going out).

Obviously this is much higher than her number.  But, I don’t own much food storage equipment.  I have two refrigerators and a closet pantry.  I barely garden (I don’t have time and living in the Northeast makes it impossible much of the year without greenhouses or other expenses.).  We also drink milk and eat fish regularly, neither of which would be in her budget.

I took a picture after my last trip to BJs, which was admittedly pretty small by our standards.

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But, I put it here because I don’t think this would make the cut for her.  Maybe she’d buy the craisins, bacon, and one gallon of milk with coupons.  But, these are things we like to have available.  And, I’m ok with that.

The Frugal Girl

I found this blog recently while searching for potato bread recipes.  The bread is excellent and I read much of the blog history.  Kristen is a good writer.  I don’t pretend to be as frugal as her, nor do I homeschool, but I do appreciate the grocery/shopping related posts.  I don’t read many blogs daily, but I’ve kept up with this one for a while.

Last Week’s Accomplishments – Playroom Clean Out

Everyone’s getting back to their routine.  That being said, even though I’ve kept up with throwing out 5 items per day, I’m not making a dent in the major problem areas.  I suspect this is because the problems are so large and at the holidays we’ve had a lot of stuff enter the house.  So, I’m going to try to use this space to show my progress thereby encouraging me to stay on track.

  • Did a major playroom cleanup, including taking down the VERY old artwork. Some was replaced with new drawings, but mostly we’ve got blank walls now waiting for new creations.
  • Got the three older boys’ ski stuff ready for their trip at the end of the month. Our oldest has been once; the twins have never been.  So, this involved determining what we had, getting a helmet for free, and buying a few new items (especially for the younger two who were in need of new snowpants anyway).
  • Grocery trips to Shaw’s, Stop & Shop, and BJs
  • Entered two months of Pampers Gifts to Go codes (yes, I could do this every month and get prizes, but they’re not worth the time to log in that often)
  • Replaced the shower curtain
  • Baked blueberry muffins for a meeting
  • Wrapped 7 gifts for upcoming birthday parties
  • Repaired 5 books (unfortunately this is an insignificant portion of the pile)

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Weekly Menu

This is a strange week as I will be going out, for one reason or another, Tuesday through Friday evenings.  Some nights I’ll be able to eat with everyone else, sometimes not.  So, it’s a bit of a hodge podge.

Here’s the meal plan for this week.

Saturday
Everybody is out (not all in the same place)

Sunday:
Homemade pizza (for all in the living room during the football game)

Monday:
Lemon ricotta risotto with asparagus, peas, and prosciutto
Potato bread

Tuesday:
Shrimp
Green beans

Wednesday:
Salmon
Broccoli
Potato bread

Thursday:
Kids: macaroni & cheese
Adults: homemade pizza

Friday:
Shepard’s pie
Brocolli

The BatBot

I wasn’t sure about this.  It got a lot of press to the run up to Christmas.  I saw one in October and thought maybe.  I saw one just after Thanksgiving, but figured it had been played with 100 times in the store so I should buy it online.  Trouble was, by that point, online was sold out and they were going for 4 times the regular price on Ebay/Amazon Marketplace/etc.  Of course, by this time I was sure it was what I wanted.  After much looking, I finally found one at the Fisher Price Store.  And, I’m glad I spent the time because it has been played with a lot so far.

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House Henge is Here

I find this time of year very annoying.  For about two months around lunchtime the sun goes in our upstairs bathroom window, straight down the stairs, and out the front door.   It looks interesting, but is blinding everytime one has to go upstairs.

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What to do with Big Kid Toys when Small Kids are Around?

I’m often asked how we handle big kid stuff (legos, art supplies, open cups, etc.) with small kids around.  It does require some management and there are times the older ones are inconvenienced.

We keep all small toys on the 2nd floor. Since mine share a room we have an extra bedroom. The little ones have no need to be up there without an adult. It is hard to convince one child to play away from people on their own at that age so they won’t get as much use as they would nearby or if there are multiple big kids.  Art supplies are in a closet that only gets opened when babies/toddlers are napping.  On rare occasions the younger ones are happy in the gated playroom and the older ones can use art supplies elsewhere.

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(Can you tell we have boys?)

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That being said, over the years I’ve found that some small toys are more manageable than others. For example, brand name Matchbox & Hot Wheels cars are not my first choice for toddler teeth, but they hold up very well unlike knockoffs so I have no knockoffs.  Also, its easy to rush to the “big kid” toys. We have far more LEGOs than anyone actually needs and we didn’t even start with the oldest was well past 4 (youngest age on sets). My oldest gravitated back to the “baby toys” as soon as the twins got interesting enough to play with.