He’s Out!

It was coming eventually – our 2 year-old escaped his crib, repeatedly.  So, we decided to take the side off so its now a toddler bed.  But, this means that very little (beyond groceries, meals, and getting folks where they need to be) got done this week.  Instead, time was spent with additional baby-proofing and general sanitizing of the room so that he isn’t turning the bedroom inside out multiple times per day.  On the plus side I did clean out a bunch of stuff that I put away, threw away, or set aside to sell.

So, here’s what I got done.

  • Threw out 4 socks
  • Threw out 2 shirts
  • Fixed 2 books – Thankfully his new found freedom is resulting in less book destruction.
  • Chose fabrics to reupholster the living room sofas and dining room chairs, which desperately needs doing.

Weekly Menu

Things are getting back to normal, though this will be our first full week of school in a long time (assuming we make it with no snow).  We have a few evening events this week that will affect dinner, but that’s normal too.  The temperature is in the mid 40s which is good for melting.  All in all I can’t complain.

Here’s what I got at Stop & Shop last week.  Most items were on sale.  The best purchase was the ice cream for $0.74.  The chicken was more than 50% off.  The paper wrapped item is cod, our fish for that week.

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Saturday
Kids: Eggs
     Adults: Homemade pizza

Sunday:
Braised pork
     Mashed potatoes
     Carrots

Monday:
Chicken pot pie
     Green beans

Tuesday:
Chinese take-out

Wednesday:
Tuna steaks
     Baked potato
     Brussels sprouts

Thursday:
Kids: Chicken nuggets
     Adults: Steak, potato pancake, salad

Friday:
Kids: Eggs
Adults: Homemade pizza

Yes, I Throw Things Out

Kristen (AKA The Frugal Girl) had a post this week called “How to Declutter Without Creating Trash.”  I thought I would say a few things about that since I’ve had a number of Tuesday posts recently referencing throwing things out.

Yes, I throw things out.  Yes, I do recycle too.  Any paper/cardboard goes out in the recycling and with four kids in school we get a lot of that.  I do try to fix things that can be fixed.  And somethings cannot be fixed – by me or anyone else – so they go in the trash.

My Tuesday posts have referenced a lot of clothing – socks, pants, and shirts.  On the plus side, with 5 boys pretty much everything is worn thoroughly.  I have the oldest and youngest boys in my family so I don’t do much clothing swapping beyond what we happen to end up with that doesn’t work for our kids.  Since I have twins, I do sometimes pass on my duplicates.  There are also a number of local consignment stores/sales which take gently used kids items.  I’ve participated in a few of these sales.  We also have many Goodwill and other charity drop boxes that take different sorts of gently used items.  However, Kristen references fabric drop boxes where they will take clothing that is no longer wearable and recycle it.  I’m not aware of any drop boxes around here for fabric recycling.  She also recommends posting damaged but salvageable items (think pants with holes in the knees) on Freecycle for crafty folks.  Unfortunately, when I throw pants out, apart from the giant knee holes they are usually in very good condition.  I actually tried Freecycling them thinking someone might make shorts, quilt, etc. but got no takers so I’ve stopped.

One of the comments talks about making sure you use up toiletries.  I thought that was a good one as I recently started going through the backlog of toothpaste tubes we get from the dentist.  For the longest time I just set them aside.  My kids weren’t old enough for fluoridated toothpaste and the samples weren’t my preferred type.  I donated a few when toiletries were being collected.  But, I also saved some for use when traveling or just because it seemed wrong to waste them.  Anyway, I recently realized that I should start using them.  So, I’ve been using them myself and working with the kids to use them.  So far so good and we’ll have a few months where we don’t need to purchase toothpaste.

Kristen also talks about selling unwanted items.  I’ve done this too.  I parted with a number of books using an Amazon shop.  As mentioned earlier, I’ve participated in a few kids goods consignments sales.  I’ve used Craigslist for some larger items.  That being said, I’m in need of a yard sale.  They’re not my favorite thing to do, but it’s a good way to get rid of lots of different stuff that might be around your house.  I last participated in one four years back.  My preference is for a group yard sale.

Our previous town used to have a town-wide one where everyone brought their items to the town common.  The advantage is that you had a bunch of buyers; the disadvantage is that you were basically limited to one vehicle load.  That being said, it did it for a few years and felt it really paid off.  I also picked up a few items (like that plastic lawnmower you saw a few days back) that we still get good use from.  Our current down doesn’t have such a thing and with the boys’ schedules I haven’t been able to link up with our neighborhood yard sale.  I’m going to have to figure something out in the next year though as the pile I’ve identified for this purpose isn’t going anywhere.

I’ve touched on some different things and this post is getting rather long.  I’m sure there are other ways to reduce trash while reducing the stuff in one’s home.

Moving Towards Spring

We changed up our after school activities this week.  I was happy that the boys were excited to return to swimming lessons.  We’d taken a few months off.  One, the 3y class was full.  Two, it’s tough coming out of swimming in winter, in the dark, and with a wet head.  Of course, I made this decision last November not knowing what sort of winter lay in store for us.  That decision worked out very well.

Today is also the last day of skiing lessons for my oldest.  This is actually a make up day for one of the bad weather days earlier in the winter.  The snow will be around for a while to come though.  Unfortunately, we’ll miss his new Thursday afternoon class as I wasn’t expecting skiing to run this long.  The twins start drawing class this afternoon.  It’s a bit colder again today, but I’m hoping to get the younger two out in the snow while we wait for the older ones’ classes.

Top 10 Ways You Know You’ve Had Enough Snow

In honor of the retiring David Letterman:

10.  Boston has declared the here-to-for worthy holiday of Evacuation Day a school day.
9.  A backhoe has taken up permanent residence in the elementary school parking lot.
8.  You can see neither left nor right when walking on the sidewalk.
7.  You get excited that your trash is picked up on the correct day.
6.  Preschool opens even though the public schools have a delayed opening.
5.  The Dr.’s office is ok with your being an hour late. (Hey, you got there AND found parking!)
4.  Your 2 year-old is productive with a snow shovel.
3.  You’ve tried all available snow options – no school, 2 hr delay, and 1 hr delay – in the same winter.
2.  Your kids heads droop when they’re told snow is in the forecast.
1.  Preschool has decided to add days to the end of the school year.

Last Week’s Accomplishments – The Books are done!

There was much less shoveling this week, thankfully.  More like maintenance.   Though, it did snow and the temperature did not rise so when it came down it had to be dealt with.

  • Threw out 1 shirt
  • Fixed 1 winter glove
  • Threw out 3 socks
  • Fixed 17 books – I am officially done with the backlog! There will be more to do as my book destroyer is still at it, but at least now we’re in maintenance mode.
  • Read my backlog of Sports Illustrated and The Economist. They’re from the start of the year, so before the Super Bowl.  Yes, I actually read them.

Weekly Menu & Grocery Update

First, the update on February’s grocery spending.  It was excellent.  Now, I must attribute some of that to the snow.  While I did generally get to the store once a week, it was hit or miss.  We didn’t get out of the house as much as usual which meant we were eating through what we had.

  • February TOTAL: $680.50
    • Stop & Shop: $167.01
    • BJs: $229.59
    • Other: $283.90
      • Local: $66.21*
      • Wegman’s: $118.67
      • Star Market: $85.28
      • Trader Joe’s: $6.57
      • Target: $7.17

*Usually, local means local food.  In this case it means sold by a local business (and elementary school fundraiser) since, well, its winter and there isn’t much food growing around here right now.

While we’re still getting snow on what seems like a daily basis, the volumes are much less so things are returning somewhat to normal.  At some point I’ll have to restock our groceries, but I’m not in a rush.  Here’s what I did get at BJ’s last week.  Note that the meat is all for this week so there really isn’t anything I would call stocking up here.

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Saturday
Kids: Leftovers
     Adults: Homemade macaroni & cheese

Sunday:
Beef & broccoli stir fry
Rice

Monday:
Kids: Eggs
     Adults: Homemade pizza

Tuesday:
Chicken soup
     Corn muffins

Wednesday:
Cod
     Peas
     Sweet potatoes

Thursday:
Asiago chicken

Friday:
Kids: Chicken nuggets
Adults: Homemade pizza

Fundraisers

Does anybody like school fundraisers, really?  I know lots of people who organize them, participate in them, and benefit from them.  It’s not all bad.

As a child I hated fundraisers.  Begging folks to buy things they don’t need so my school/group could get a small piece of the pie wasn’t fun.  And, if it was candy one was always at risk of having it stolen by other kids who either wanted to eat it or just wanted to see your reaction.  I vowed never to sell anything.

Then I ended up in retail in college, which wasn’t bad as there was no merchandise hawking (or commissions).  Most oddly, though, I then ended up in corporate sales though, as you can imagine, that was nothing like what I imagined in high school.

Coming full circle now I have the kids’ fundraisers to deal with.  Earlier in the month we had the shop local fundraiser.  This week it’s Scholastic Book Club.  I have no vested interest in them, but think I’m ok with books.  Especially since I have so many younger ones who will eventually reach this level of reading, it doesn’t hurt to grow our library.

I’ve been hit with this for years now, starting in preschool and now preschool and public school.  I’ve concluded that my preference is to write a check to the PTA in the fall and then I’m done.  Should something come along we can actually use I may do that too, but its pretty rare.  I’d far prefer 100% of my contribution goes to the school than covering overhead/prizes or stuff that I don’t need.

How to Break a Record

I was going to take a break from writing about snow, but then I looked out the window and, guess what, more flakes falling from the sky.  These are definitely just flurries, but still.

In case you have missed it, Boston has gotten a lot of snow this year – just about all in the last month.  We’ve gotten twice our average amount and its barely ever gotten out of the teens, let alone above freezing.  We’ve reached the point where this is the second snowiest winter ever and yesterday they announced we were running at the second coldest February ever.  I don’t know if that will hold, but its not warm today and tomorrow’s forecast is no better.

The top two conversations – how to clear ice dams and how to break the snowfall record.

There are plenty of ideas on what to do about ice dams (or damns as folks have switched to) online so I won’t say more on that.

How to break the record, however, is up for debate.  Having crossed 100 inches to 101.8” (most of which is still on the ground albeit compacted to about 3 feet of solidness), we need fewer than 6” to break the all time record of 107.6 set in 1995-1996.  (I haven’t lived here very long but apparently arrived just in time to witness the top two winters.  Yeah.)  I am firmly in the camp that wants one storm with all of it so we can plow/shovel and then get on with the melting.  Many others, however, would like it to fall an inch or two at a time so we’re not inundated again.  Given the long range forecast for March I feel confident we’ll get there one way or another.

Meanwhile, a new topic is starting to emerge.  With all the melting required, how long will it be muddy and what affect will that have on kids’ spring sports.  I’m thinking it will not be good, but I’ll have to get back to you in a few months.  Kids spring sports start in April.

It Keeps Coming

It’s snowing again (big surprise).  Last Sunday it actually got above freezing so the little guy got outside.  I think he’s being a bit optimistic.

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I also tried to take a few snow pictures over the weekend with stuff that might offer some perspective.  I don’t know when this is going to melt, but it will be a while especially since we’re not supposed to go over freezing again this week.  I heard one of the meteorologists wonder if there had ever been a month when Boston didn’t reach 40 degrees.  And, one sentence later I think he said that was the average temperature for right now.  I tried explaining to the boys that a few winters ago they’d been out in shorts and T-shirts over February vacation when the weather when extreme the other way; they didn’t believe me.

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